Naming it, maybe we’ll get more of it….
No movie trying to depict women having sexual choice will have a scene where a group of girlfriends are on their way to the club and one announces her goal is to at least get some cunnaliqus tonight. Or if it is used in a movie, the use of an SAT word to describe a sexual act would be the punchline of a joke. Again, putting oral sex for a women in a far off and distant land where appearently everyone speaks Latin.
Confucius says: “The begining of wisdom is to call things by their proper name.” So, lets start down wise path and find a culturally atune noun for performing oral sex on a woman.
“Blow Job” follows Confucius’ protocol, “blow” makes you think of oral stuff, and “job” is actually quite honest and sets the expectation that there is work involved.
Tongued?
Here is my offering to the free marketplace of ideas: saying you want to be “tongued” parrells the logic of being “fingered,” it lets those performing “tonguing” what is expected. The word “tonguing” alone has a laboring mood to it…if you were ever told you had to tongue something, you know its going to take some effort.