It just may be the difference between getting sex and masturbating…
I have sexual choice. One evening I found myself scrolling through my texts calculating how I was to exercise my choice. I stopped on a text from a lover that without fail always gives me the best massages after sex.
That week I started a new squat routine and my body was hurting in ways it had never felt. So, massage boy wins tonight’s date.
Boom, date was good, sex was better and sure-as-shit he jumps out of bed and grabs a big bottle of massage oil and starts digging into my sore muscles. As I melt under his hands he starts confessing that he once read that foreplay starts the moment after you orgasm. He continued to tell me he was attempting to create a Pavlovian Response in me where I associate his “post-coital massage” with his sex and I would be more likely to have sex with him.
After almost giggling on his word choice of “post-coital,” I too confessed to choosing to see him because I needed a massage after my workouts. I felt a litte manipulated to be honest, but that feeling with mixed with the respect of being cleverly manipulated and to a good outcome.
Key Take Aways
Foreplay starts after you orgasm — convince your lovers of this and watch their behavior shape up.
Massage after sex may be the deciding factor for further sexual encounters.
There is room in our vocabularies for the word “coital.”
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