Playing with timing not partners
Whatever dude, we all have multiple lovers, I’m just tinkering with the timing of my lovers. In place of back-to-back timing model, I’m using a less linear and more dynamic and real-time contexual model. I find I can glean more value from life when I find partners that compliment and fulfill me in their areas of strength.
I find it fulfilling to allow my “music buddy” lover to be the one who sends me music randomly throughout the day, feeds my sappy romantic poet and jams out on instruments with me. It would be unfair and super inefficient to put my artsy needs on my “deep intellicutal conversations guy” lover. And even a worse idea to put any of those requirements on my “only call when I want plowed hard into a pillow” lover.
Toying with the timing of relationships has some pretty cool third and fourth order effects. My guys bring me their best selves due to the competitive environment surrounding my time…and vagina.
Guys give just enough care and feeding to our relationship because I offer drama and requirement free friendship and sex. Compared to monogamous relationships where its a cliche for a women to get her man to make just the slightest effort at their relationship, I get small efforts from a few men that seem to equal more than a satisfied married person.
Dont have sex with different people is good advice in the 1800’s when everything sucked, however, technology overcomes the procreative results of sex and we have protection, early detection and treatment for STDs, we can shed the old customs around sex much like we shed the culture of driving a horse and buggy.
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